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I manage a DevOps team of ca 10 engineers in ~150 headcount software development company. One of my team members (call him Joe) has been with the company pretty much since its inception 10+ years ago, longer than anyone else apart from the owner.



Joe doesn't seem to have any ambitions to move up to middle management, he seems to be happy doing what he's doing in the team. However because he's been with the company for so long he tends to ignore the rules, processes and even the company structure. And he gets away with it because when he needs an exemption, decision, or anything "nonstandard" he can go right to the owner and gets it approved on the spot. Or he simply ignores what he doesn't like.



Quite often that's against my and my team's decisions - for instance we settled on using Slack for communication, alerts, etc. He doesn't bother logging in most days and insists we call him or email him if needed. Or we have all-team work planning meetings every 2 weeks, but again he can't be bothered as he says he knows what he's got to do.



That puts me in an an awkward position - he's in theory my "subordinate" but in reality he ignores me, and everyone else in the management structure and goes right to the owner if feels like it. I'm not in a position to go to the owner's office and deal with it the same way Joe can. After all I've been with the company for only a little over a year, Joe has been here 10x longer. I can only bring it up with my direct line manager but he doesn't seem to be able to do much as Joe is under sort of "protection" from the owner.



What should I do? Even though I don't have any personal issues with him or his work performance it's causing some tensions in the team ("Why do I have to do XYZ when Joe doesn't") and I'm not sure how to approach it.










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    He could use a slack app that emails all the slack notifcations.
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    How did you approach Joe about the problems so far? For example when he said he doesn't need to attend the all-team meeting, what was your response to that? It also sounds like you may be mixing up different things of different importance. For example, skipping all-team meetings and asking people to "please call me because I'd rather not log into the chat system" are very different things. Yes, everyone using the same chat system may be a nice thing to have, but attendance to an all-team meeting should more likely be non-negotiable.
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    Have you talked to Joe about this at all? Seems like that would be a logical first step.
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    " for instance we settled on using Slack for communication, alerts, etc." to what extend was Joe involved in that decision?
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    I'm wondering if, given the situation, you've considered that, maybe, you haven't (yet?) earned enough of Joe's trust (if any) for him to take you more seriously and/or respect you, not for your position, but for showing that you know what you're doing? Just a thought. You can't demand such things; you must earn them.
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I manage a DevOps team of ca 10 engineers in ~150 headcount software development company. One of my team members (call him Joe) has been with the company pretty much since its inception 10+ years ago, longer than anyone else apart from the owner.



Joe doesn't seem to have any ambitions to move up to middle management, he seems to be happy doing what he's doing in the team. However because he's been with the company for so long he tends to ignore the rules, processes and even the company structure. And he gets away with it because when he needs an exemption, decision, or anything "nonstandard" he can go right to the owner and gets it approved on the spot. Or he simply ignores what he doesn't like.



Quite often that's against my and my team's decisions - for instance we settled on using Slack for communication, alerts, etc. He doesn't bother logging in most days and insists we call him or email him if needed. Or we have all-team work planning meetings every 2 weeks, but again he can't be bothered as he says he knows what he's got to do.



That puts me in an an awkward position - he's in theory my "subordinate" but in reality he ignores me, and everyone else in the management structure and goes right to the owner if feels like it. I'm not in a position to go to the owner's office and deal with it the same way Joe can. After all I've been with the company for only a little over a year, Joe has been here 10x longer. I can only bring it up with my direct line manager but he doesn't seem to be able to do much as Joe is under sort of "protection" from the owner.



What should I do? Even though I don't have any personal issues with him or his work performance it's causing some tensions in the team ("Why do I have to do XYZ when Joe doesn't") and I'm not sure how to approach it.










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    He could use a slack app that emails all the slack notifcations.
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    How did you approach Joe about the problems so far? For example when he said he doesn't need to attend the all-team meeting, what was your response to that? It also sounds like you may be mixing up different things of different importance. For example, skipping all-team meetings and asking people to "please call me because I'd rather not log into the chat system" are very different things. Yes, everyone using the same chat system may be a nice thing to have, but attendance to an all-team meeting should more likely be non-negotiable.
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    Have you talked to Joe about this at all? Seems like that would be a logical first step.
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    " for instance we settled on using Slack for communication, alerts, etc." to what extend was Joe involved in that decision?
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    I'm wondering if, given the situation, you've considered that, maybe, you haven't (yet?) earned enough of Joe's trust (if any) for him to take you more seriously and/or respect you, not for your position, but for showing that you know what you're doing? Just a thought. You can't demand such things; you must earn them.
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I manage a DevOps team of ca 10 engineers in ~150 headcount software development company. One of my team members (call him Joe) has been with the company pretty much since its inception 10+ years ago, longer than anyone else apart from the owner.



Joe doesn't seem to have any ambitions to move up to middle management, he seems to be happy doing what he's doing in the team. However because he's been with the company for so long he tends to ignore the rules, processes and even the company structure. And he gets away with it because when he needs an exemption, decision, or anything "nonstandard" he can go right to the owner and gets it approved on the spot. Or he simply ignores what he doesn't like.



Quite often that's against my and my team's decisions - for instance we settled on using Slack for communication, alerts, etc. He doesn't bother logging in most days and insists we call him or email him if needed. Or we have all-team work planning meetings every 2 weeks, but again he can't be bothered as he says he knows what he's got to do.



That puts me in an an awkward position - he's in theory my "subordinate" but in reality he ignores me, and everyone else in the management structure and goes right to the owner if feels like it. I'm not in a position to go to the owner's office and deal with it the same way Joe can. After all I've been with the company for only a little over a year, Joe has been here 10x longer. I can only bring it up with my direct line manager but he doesn't seem to be able to do much as Joe is under sort of "protection" from the owner.



What should I do? Even though I don't have any personal issues with him or his work performance it's causing some tensions in the team ("Why do I have to do XYZ when Joe doesn't") and I'm not sure how to approach it.










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I manage a DevOps team of ca 10 engineers in ~150 headcount software development company. One of my team members (call him Joe) has been with the company pretty much since its inception 10+ years ago, longer than anyone else apart from the owner.



Joe doesn't seem to have any ambitions to move up to middle management, he seems to be happy doing what he's doing in the team. However because he's been with the company for so long he tends to ignore the rules, processes and even the company structure. And he gets away with it because when he needs an exemption, decision, or anything "nonstandard" he can go right to the owner and gets it approved on the spot. Or he simply ignores what he doesn't like.



Quite often that's against my and my team's decisions - for instance we settled on using Slack for communication, alerts, etc. He doesn't bother logging in most days and insists we call him or email him if needed. Or we have all-team work planning meetings every 2 weeks, but again he can't be bothered as he says he knows what he's got to do.



That puts me in an an awkward position - he's in theory my "subordinate" but in reality he ignores me, and everyone else in the management structure and goes right to the owner if feels like it. I'm not in a position to go to the owner's office and deal with it the same way Joe can. After all I've been with the company for only a little over a year, Joe has been here 10x longer. I can only bring it up with my direct line manager but he doesn't seem to be able to do much as Joe is under sort of "protection" from the owner.



What should I do? Even though I don't have any personal issues with him or his work performance it's causing some tensions in the team ("Why do I have to do XYZ when Joe doesn't") and I'm not sure how to approach it.







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    He could use a slack app that emails all the slack notifcations.
    – dwjohnston
    22 hours ago






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    How did you approach Joe about the problems so far? For example when he said he doesn't need to attend the all-team meeting, what was your response to that? It also sounds like you may be mixing up different things of different importance. For example, skipping all-team meetings and asking people to "please call me because I'd rather not log into the chat system" are very different things. Yes, everyone using the same chat system may be a nice thing to have, but attendance to an all-team meeting should more likely be non-negotiable.
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    Have you talked to Joe about this at all? Seems like that would be a logical first step.
    – Joe Strazzere
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    " for instance we settled on using Slack for communication, alerts, etc." to what extend was Joe involved in that decision?
    – Akavall
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    I'm wondering if, given the situation, you've considered that, maybe, you haven't (yet?) earned enough of Joe's trust (if any) for him to take you more seriously and/or respect you, not for your position, but for showing that you know what you're doing? Just a thought. You can't demand such things; you must earn them.
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    He could use a slack app that emails all the slack notifcations.
    – dwjohnston
    22 hours ago






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    How did you approach Joe about the problems so far? For example when he said he doesn't need to attend the all-team meeting, what was your response to that? It also sounds like you may be mixing up different things of different importance. For example, skipping all-team meetings and asking people to "please call me because I'd rather not log into the chat system" are very different things. Yes, everyone using the same chat system may be a nice thing to have, but attendance to an all-team meeting should more likely be non-negotiable.
    – Brandin
    20 hours ago








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    Have you talked to Joe about this at all? Seems like that would be a logical first step.
    – Joe Strazzere
    15 hours ago








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    " for instance we settled on using Slack for communication, alerts, etc." to what extend was Joe involved in that decision?
    – Akavall
    8 hours ago






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    I'm wondering if, given the situation, you've considered that, maybe, you haven't (yet?) earned enough of Joe's trust (if any) for him to take you more seriously and/or respect you, not for your position, but for showing that you know what you're doing? Just a thought. You can't demand such things; you must earn them.
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He could use a slack app that emails all the slack notifcations.
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He could use a slack app that emails all the slack notifcations.
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How did you approach Joe about the problems so far? For example when he said he doesn't need to attend the all-team meeting, what was your response to that? It also sounds like you may be mixing up different things of different importance. For example, skipping all-team meetings and asking people to "please call me because I'd rather not log into the chat system" are very different things. Yes, everyone using the same chat system may be a nice thing to have, but attendance to an all-team meeting should more likely be non-negotiable.
– Brandin
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How did you approach Joe about the problems so far? For example when he said he doesn't need to attend the all-team meeting, what was your response to that? It also sounds like you may be mixing up different things of different importance. For example, skipping all-team meetings and asking people to "please call me because I'd rather not log into the chat system" are very different things. Yes, everyone using the same chat system may be a nice thing to have, but attendance to an all-team meeting should more likely be non-negotiable.
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Have you talked to Joe about this at all? Seems like that would be a logical first step.
– Joe Strazzere
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Have you talked to Joe about this at all? Seems like that would be a logical first step.
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" for instance we settled on using Slack for communication, alerts, etc." to what extend was Joe involved in that decision?
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" for instance we settled on using Slack for communication, alerts, etc." to what extend was Joe involved in that decision?
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I'm wondering if, given the situation, you've considered that, maybe, you haven't (yet?) earned enough of Joe's trust (if any) for him to take you more seriously and/or respect you, not for your position, but for showing that you know what you're doing? Just a thought. You can't demand such things; you must earn them.
– code_dredd
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I'm wondering if, given the situation, you've considered that, maybe, you haven't (yet?) earned enough of Joe's trust (if any) for him to take you more seriously and/or respect you, not for your position, but for showing that you know what you're doing? Just a thought. You can't demand such things; you must earn them.
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This is the owner's issue IMO. Right now he can't see the impact that Joe's ability to bypass structure is having on the rest of the business, and as a result, he is complicit in enabling this to happen.



If I were you, I'd recommend scheduling a meeting with the owner and explaining that, although Joe is a good team member, his resistance to following agreed process is disruptive to the team, and therefore not good for the business as a whole.



If the owner is a smart guy and values his company more than his personal relationship with Joe, he would see your position and ideally bring Joe back into line. If not, then you have a real problem on your hands - the only way forward from there would be to get tough with Joe on a personal level, document all the ways he doesn't follow the process (e.g. refusal to use Slack) and if he then goes to the owner to claim you are being unfair on him, you can back up your position with evidence that he is the one causing the problems, not you.



Bottom line: either the boss cares more about Joe having free reign, in which case I don't see a way to solve the problem, or he can see your position and will take steps to bring him into line. I don't think this is something you can solve directly, since even though you have apparent seniority, Joe is disregarding it.






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    This is the right answer, this problem was created due to the owner's approval of his actions. Its clear Joe respects no one else from management enough and it will take the owner to set things straight for it to work (if that's even possible to begin with, after 10 years of this behavior).
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Because [Joe's] been with the company for so long he tends to ignore the rules, processes and even the company structure. And he gets away with it because when he needs an exemption, decision, or anything "nonstandard" he can go right to the owner and gets it approved on the spot. Or he simply ignores what he doesn't like.




There is an inherent problem here: Joe isn't being a team player. A 150 person company can't scale if every engineer (regardless of seniority) is running off and doing his own thing. Some may argue because Joe delivers you should leave him be. But if Joe can't coordinate with other members of his team, he's actually hindering the work of 9 people. Unless Joe can be a 1 man show (and you can fire the other 9 people), he needs to learn to work with his team and within the confines of the processes and rules. If he doesn't like the processes and rules that are in place, he should use his power to change them instead of just ignoring them.



I've worked with a "Joe" at one of my previous companies. He was the first engineer hired at a popular startup and had a direct line to the co-founders. But as the company scaled, he too was ignoring processes and having difficulty working within the new org structure. Enough people complained about him that the co-founders ended up put him in charge of a R&D division and allowed him to hand pick the engineers for his team. He was very ineffective leading the R&D group. After 1.5 years, they didn't produce any meaningful research and he eventually left the company. His team was disbanded and absorbed into the engineering group. The moral of the story is that people like "Joe" may seem like an asset to the company, but they belong in smaller companies with less structure. They prefer the wild west of early stage startups where anything goes. They hinder the growth of the company by ignoring rules which builds dissent among the other employees.



I recommend having a talk with Joe about how his actions make it difficult to coordinate with him and hinder the work of his team.






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    This might be the better answer in case the company has been making some progress moving away from the startup/small business culture
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    That's a good point but what can I do about it? Talking to Joe won't lead anywhere, he's happy with the current status. Talking to my line manager probably won't help either, he's still a few levels below the owner. I can't go directly to the owner and complain about his loyal engineer of 10 years, I'm not in that position. Besides I can't really point out any single big, pressing issue that could be corrected if Joe was removed from the company. Your point is good but doesn't really answer how to deal with it.
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    This is an excellent summary of the situation, but the advice is wrong. Joe is perfectly happy with the status quo, so why would he change? Not everyone cares about other people's feelings; with such people, letting them know they're making others' jobs harder won't result in them changing their behaviour.
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    The anecdote gives the correct advice. You "promote" Joe into a one-man position where he doesn't have to interact with anyone else. Ideally, he also doesn't have anything at all to do which impacts on the rest of the company. When he gets bored and leaves, the problem is solved. If he doesn't show any sign of wanting to leave, don't award him any annual pay increments (on the grounds that he's not adding any value to the company, of course!) until he changes his mind.
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Put your shoes into Joe's :




  • You've been working here for 10+ years

  • You've been good at what you are doing

  • Directly in touch with the owner, satisfying his requests, etc...

  • Now this new manager 'trendy', 'new wave' etc... is coming up and telling me what to do

  • I don't care about these new techs, new structure, etc... it was working fine before, why change?


So that's basically how he feels, and you can't approach this as a pure manager, you have to understand him as a senior developer.



What I suggest doing?



I think the main point is to come up with incremental steps.
First identify all the weak points that you want to 'fix' :




  • A- Doesn't come in Slack

  • B- Doesn't attend team meeting

  • C- Hit up the boss directly bypassing the whole process

  • etc...


Then slowly (over weeks) come up to him with 2 choices (let's say A,B) and say something in those lines :




Hey Joe, we really need you in the team, you are a core member (pat him a little). We need your expertise and be in sync more frequently, I've noticed you don't use Slack where the team communicates nor coming to the team meetings, could you please at least do one of them? That would improve the team work and we would all really appreciate that. (basically give him power/choice and make him thinks that HE chooses what he can do) I know you are not into those things (approach with compassion), we are just trying to streamline the process and get everyone on board, in sync.




The key points here, are putting first the TEAM WORK and that you UNDERSTAND him, don't make it like it's coming from you or like a personal favor. Get him involved in the process by giving him the choice to join the process.



Keep asking for A + B until he does one of them, then keep going with B + C (or A+C depending of what he does), etc... The more steps he will be doing, the more he will feel involved and the better it will go.



In the case of him doing 0 efforts and being 100% stubborn, you don't have many choices, IMO, but escalating it to the boss and try to talk with the boss + Joe in a meeting to clear things out.






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This team member does not believe that your novelties and reorganizations (like using Slack instead of E-mail) are useful and sees them as unnecessary waste of time that should be spent on the actual work.



He may be wrong; depending on your experience he may also be at least partially right. Other team members may share his opinion but be afraid to show it so openly. He does because he feels more protected.



You need to convince him, and probably also more of the team, that your suggestions on work re-organization are useful and important. You need to explain why do you want changes, how do these changes make work more efficient and why are they needed now when it was ok without them in the past. Also think maybe some of your proposals are not sufficiently thought about.






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    Quite often that's against my and my team's decisions - for instance we settled on using Slack for communication, alerts, etc. He doesn't bother logging in most days and insists we call him or email him if needed. Or we have all-team work planning meetings every 2 weeks, but again he can't be bothered as he says he knows what he's got to do.




    Actually, it sounds like there are two problems here. One is that your examples for non-conformity sound weak. In your position, I also wouldn't bother going to the owners office, if you insist in using slack instead of the telephone. I mean, if Joe thinks he can replace slack with a telefone call, why to use slack in the first place? If there are real advantages over the telephone, you can highlight them a bit and maybe convince the owner.



    Two, if the problem is, that Joe rejects anything and he gets backup from the owner, you cannot do anything anyway. Main problem here is that this destroys your authority because the employees see that you cannot influence anything. The solution would be to go to the owner and speak about this problem, so that he either stops undermining your authority or you look for another job.






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    • if Joe thinks he can replace slack with a telefone call, why to use slack in the first place? You can't replace slack with a phone call - you could replace it with, in a team of 10, 9 phone calls for every message sent - which would be ridiculous.
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    • As I said, if Team chat is important for Joe, then highlight this topic for the owner. At the end, he seems to decide how to work.
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    One of my team members (call him Joe) has been with the company pretty much since its inception 10+ years ago, longer than anyone else apart from the owner.




    If he is still with the company he has demonstrated he is capable of delivering time and time again.




    when he needs an exemption, decision, or anything "nonstandard" he can go right to the owner and gets it approved on the spot.




    The owner trusts his decisions and wants "Joe" to deliver as he sees fit.




    Even though I don't have any personal issues with him or his work performance it's causing some tensions in the team.




    It should not be too difficult to let the team understand his position as the senior member of the company.



    At the end of the day everyone is getting paid for the value they are delivering to the stakeholders. As the person managing this person, your job is to make sure he delivers value and seems like he is already doing that. If you try to work against him you will be




    1. Blocking him from delivering value and so failing at your job

    2. It will not work since owner is the owner and calls the shots


    Work with him. Unless he is intentionally disrupting the team give the guy the space to do his job. Do not cause undue stress just because he does not use some messaging app.



    If having your "subordinate" work autonomously from you is bothering you too much I would look into another job. The situation is the owner's call and from what you re saying like he is happy enough with it. There is not much you can do unless, again, he is being overtly disruptive.






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      There is a problem with this approach, though. Once a startup grows to the size this one has, it ceases to be the 'Wild West' where developers can work autonomously. I once worked for a software company just like this, and the result was unmaintainable, bloated code. If you don't follow strict guidelines on how to add new code, you can't work in a team of this size and deliver something that later additions to the team can maintain.
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      This answer might work if it was based around removing Joe from the team and letting him work independently, but right now Joe is part of a team, and his behavior is hurting the rest of the team, and that issue should be resolved.
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    • @Erik I based the answer on the owner seeing the team getting hurt as an acceptable tradeoff to the value he is getting from the guy while he is still somewhat working with the team. I think jcmack's answer is better for most cases but this is still useful
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      +1 for "Work with him". Forcing him to follow a structure could be counter-productive. After all "Individuals and interactions over processes and tools" is the first point in agilemanifesto.org
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    That puts me in an an awkward position - he's in theory my "subordinate" but in reality he ignores me,




    That's only on paper, but in reality you have no power over Joe. If you are no power over him, you aren't his boss no matter what your contract says. You have to understand as long as Joe has support from the owner who pays your own salary, there is nothing you should do.



    You will not disagree Joe, anything he has support from the owner is the laws. Breaking his laws/beliefs is a crime. Apparently, you've been breaking the laws often by going against Joe's wills.



    Manage your team as if Joe was you direct manager. Make him happy so the owner would praise you. The only thing that defines right/wrong in an organization is power, unfortunately you lost the power struggle battle.




    ... for instance we settled on using Slack for communication, alerts, etc. He doesn't bother logging in most days and insists we call him or email him if needed...




    As long as Joe has support from the owner, it's your own fault for settling on Slack. Joe, who is your de-facto manger had not approved your idea. Please do what exactly Joe demanded you to do.




    Or we have all-team work planning meetings every 2 weeks, but again he can't be bothered as he says he knows what he's got to do.




    Again, had you asked for permission from Joe for a regular fortnight meeting?



    Please note Joe must have contributed significantly for the company to make it a 150+ company. The owner has the trust on him. Please thanks Joe for his works leading to your current job.






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      @Mawg Ok. "obey" was too strong, I meant "disagree". I edited.
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      And the sad, harsh, reality, is that Joe makes other employees run - to other companies., C'est la view :-/
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      Nothing about Joe suggests he's leading or managing anything; he's being a loose cannon. There's nothing neccesarily wrong with that, but it's pointless trying to "follow" him or to treat him like your manager. That'll just get you fired for not being able to manage the rest of the team.
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      You didn't. Nobody did; that's the point. You said to treat him like he is one. I just explained why that would be pointless.
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      Treating him like a manager because he has proven himself incapable of being managed is... well, an interesting perpsective.
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    This is the owner's issue IMO. Right now he can't see the impact that Joe's ability to bypass structure is having on the rest of the business, and as a result, he is complicit in enabling this to happen.



    If I were you, I'd recommend scheduling a meeting with the owner and explaining that, although Joe is a good team member, his resistance to following agreed process is disruptive to the team, and therefore not good for the business as a whole.



    If the owner is a smart guy and values his company more than his personal relationship with Joe, he would see your position and ideally bring Joe back into line. If not, then you have a real problem on your hands - the only way forward from there would be to get tough with Joe on a personal level, document all the ways he doesn't follow the process (e.g. refusal to use Slack) and if he then goes to the owner to claim you are being unfair on him, you can back up your position with evidence that he is the one causing the problems, not you.



    Bottom line: either the boss cares more about Joe having free reign, in which case I don't see a way to solve the problem, or he can see your position and will take steps to bring him into line. I don't think this is something you can solve directly, since even though you have apparent seniority, Joe is disregarding it.






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      This is the right answer, this problem was created due to the owner's approval of his actions. Its clear Joe respects no one else from management enough and it will take the owner to set things straight for it to work (if that's even possible to begin with, after 10 years of this behavior).
      – Leon
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    This is the owner's issue IMO. Right now he can't see the impact that Joe's ability to bypass structure is having on the rest of the business, and as a result, he is complicit in enabling this to happen.



    If I were you, I'd recommend scheduling a meeting with the owner and explaining that, although Joe is a good team member, his resistance to following agreed process is disruptive to the team, and therefore not good for the business as a whole.



    If the owner is a smart guy and values his company more than his personal relationship with Joe, he would see your position and ideally bring Joe back into line. If not, then you have a real problem on your hands - the only way forward from there would be to get tough with Joe on a personal level, document all the ways he doesn't follow the process (e.g. refusal to use Slack) and if he then goes to the owner to claim you are being unfair on him, you can back up your position with evidence that he is the one causing the problems, not you.



    Bottom line: either the boss cares more about Joe having free reign, in which case I don't see a way to solve the problem, or he can see your position and will take steps to bring him into line. I don't think this is something you can solve directly, since even though you have apparent seniority, Joe is disregarding it.






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      This is the right answer, this problem was created due to the owner's approval of his actions. Its clear Joe respects no one else from management enough and it will take the owner to set things straight for it to work (if that's even possible to begin with, after 10 years of this behavior).
      – Leon
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    This is the owner's issue IMO. Right now he can't see the impact that Joe's ability to bypass structure is having on the rest of the business, and as a result, he is complicit in enabling this to happen.



    If I were you, I'd recommend scheduling a meeting with the owner and explaining that, although Joe is a good team member, his resistance to following agreed process is disruptive to the team, and therefore not good for the business as a whole.



    If the owner is a smart guy and values his company more than his personal relationship with Joe, he would see your position and ideally bring Joe back into line. If not, then you have a real problem on your hands - the only way forward from there would be to get tough with Joe on a personal level, document all the ways he doesn't follow the process (e.g. refusal to use Slack) and if he then goes to the owner to claim you are being unfair on him, you can back up your position with evidence that he is the one causing the problems, not you.



    Bottom line: either the boss cares more about Joe having free reign, in which case I don't see a way to solve the problem, or he can see your position and will take steps to bring him into line. I don't think this is something you can solve directly, since even though you have apparent seniority, Joe is disregarding it.






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    This is the owner's issue IMO. Right now he can't see the impact that Joe's ability to bypass structure is having on the rest of the business, and as a result, he is complicit in enabling this to happen.



    If I were you, I'd recommend scheduling a meeting with the owner and explaining that, although Joe is a good team member, his resistance to following agreed process is disruptive to the team, and therefore not good for the business as a whole.



    If the owner is a smart guy and values his company more than his personal relationship with Joe, he would see your position and ideally bring Joe back into line. If not, then you have a real problem on your hands - the only way forward from there would be to get tough with Joe on a personal level, document all the ways he doesn't follow the process (e.g. refusal to use Slack) and if he then goes to the owner to claim you are being unfair on him, you can back up your position with evidence that he is the one causing the problems, not you.



    Bottom line: either the boss cares more about Joe having free reign, in which case I don't see a way to solve the problem, or he can see your position and will take steps to bring him into line. I don't think this is something you can solve directly, since even though you have apparent seniority, Joe is disregarding it.







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      This is the right answer, this problem was created due to the owner's approval of his actions. Its clear Joe respects no one else from management enough and it will take the owner to set things straight for it to work (if that's even possible to begin with, after 10 years of this behavior).
      – Leon
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    • 8




      This is the right answer, this problem was created due to the owner's approval of his actions. Its clear Joe respects no one else from management enough and it will take the owner to set things straight for it to work (if that's even possible to begin with, after 10 years of this behavior).
      – Leon
      19 hours ago








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    This is the right answer, this problem was created due to the owner's approval of his actions. Its clear Joe respects no one else from management enough and it will take the owner to set things straight for it to work (if that's even possible to begin with, after 10 years of this behavior).
    – Leon
    19 hours ago




    This is the right answer, this problem was created due to the owner's approval of his actions. Its clear Joe respects no one else from management enough and it will take the owner to set things straight for it to work (if that's even possible to begin with, after 10 years of this behavior).
    – Leon
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    Because [Joe's] been with the company for so long he tends to ignore the rules, processes and even the company structure. And he gets away with it because when he needs an exemption, decision, or anything "nonstandard" he can go right to the owner and gets it approved on the spot. Or he simply ignores what he doesn't like.




    There is an inherent problem here: Joe isn't being a team player. A 150 person company can't scale if every engineer (regardless of seniority) is running off and doing his own thing. Some may argue because Joe delivers you should leave him be. But if Joe can't coordinate with other members of his team, he's actually hindering the work of 9 people. Unless Joe can be a 1 man show (and you can fire the other 9 people), he needs to learn to work with his team and within the confines of the processes and rules. If he doesn't like the processes and rules that are in place, he should use his power to change them instead of just ignoring them.



    I've worked with a "Joe" at one of my previous companies. He was the first engineer hired at a popular startup and had a direct line to the co-founders. But as the company scaled, he too was ignoring processes and having difficulty working within the new org structure. Enough people complained about him that the co-founders ended up put him in charge of a R&D division and allowed him to hand pick the engineers for his team. He was very ineffective leading the R&D group. After 1.5 years, they didn't produce any meaningful research and he eventually left the company. His team was disbanded and absorbed into the engineering group. The moral of the story is that people like "Joe" may seem like an asset to the company, but they belong in smaller companies with less structure. They prefer the wild west of early stage startups where anything goes. They hinder the growth of the company by ignoring rules which builds dissent among the other employees.



    I recommend having a talk with Joe about how his actions make it difficult to coordinate with him and hinder the work of his team.






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      This might be the better answer in case the company has been making some progress moving away from the startup/small business culture
      – Victor S
      20 hours ago






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      That's a good point but what can I do about it? Talking to Joe won't lead anywhere, he's happy with the current status. Talking to my line manager probably won't help either, he's still a few levels below the owner. I can't go directly to the owner and complain about his loyal engineer of 10 years, I'm not in that position. Besides I can't really point out any single big, pressing issue that could be corrected if Joe was removed from the company. Your point is good but doesn't really answer how to deal with it.
      – Fer Dah
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      This is an excellent summary of the situation, but the advice is wrong. Joe is perfectly happy with the status quo, so why would he change? Not everyone cares about other people's feelings; with such people, letting them know they're making others' jobs harder won't result in them changing their behaviour.
      – AakashM
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      The anecdote gives the correct advice. You "promote" Joe into a one-man position where he doesn't have to interact with anyone else. Ideally, he also doesn't have anything at all to do which impacts on the rest of the company. When he gets bored and leaves, the problem is solved. If he doesn't show any sign of wanting to leave, don't award him any annual pay increments (on the grounds that he's not adding any value to the company, of course!) until he changes his mind.
      – alephzero
      4 hours ago

















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    Because [Joe's] been with the company for so long he tends to ignore the rules, processes and even the company structure. And he gets away with it because when he needs an exemption, decision, or anything "nonstandard" he can go right to the owner and gets it approved on the spot. Or he simply ignores what he doesn't like.




    There is an inherent problem here: Joe isn't being a team player. A 150 person company can't scale if every engineer (regardless of seniority) is running off and doing his own thing. Some may argue because Joe delivers you should leave him be. But if Joe can't coordinate with other members of his team, he's actually hindering the work of 9 people. Unless Joe can be a 1 man show (and you can fire the other 9 people), he needs to learn to work with his team and within the confines of the processes and rules. If he doesn't like the processes and rules that are in place, he should use his power to change them instead of just ignoring them.



    I've worked with a "Joe" at one of my previous companies. He was the first engineer hired at a popular startup and had a direct line to the co-founders. But as the company scaled, he too was ignoring processes and having difficulty working within the new org structure. Enough people complained about him that the co-founders ended up put him in charge of a R&D division and allowed him to hand pick the engineers for his team. He was very ineffective leading the R&D group. After 1.5 years, they didn't produce any meaningful research and he eventually left the company. His team was disbanded and absorbed into the engineering group. The moral of the story is that people like "Joe" may seem like an asset to the company, but they belong in smaller companies with less structure. They prefer the wild west of early stage startups where anything goes. They hinder the growth of the company by ignoring rules which builds dissent among the other employees.



    I recommend having a talk with Joe about how his actions make it difficult to coordinate with him and hinder the work of his team.






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    • 1




      This might be the better answer in case the company has been making some progress moving away from the startup/small business culture
      – Victor S
      20 hours ago






    • 3




      That's a good point but what can I do about it? Talking to Joe won't lead anywhere, he's happy with the current status. Talking to my line manager probably won't help either, he's still a few levels below the owner. I can't go directly to the owner and complain about his loyal engineer of 10 years, I'm not in that position. Besides I can't really point out any single big, pressing issue that could be corrected if Joe was removed from the company. Your point is good but doesn't really answer how to deal with it.
      – Fer Dah
      18 hours ago






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      This is an excellent summary of the situation, but the advice is wrong. Joe is perfectly happy with the status quo, so why would he change? Not everyone cares about other people's feelings; with such people, letting them know they're making others' jobs harder won't result in them changing their behaviour.
      – AakashM
      18 hours ago






    • 2




      The anecdote gives the correct advice. You "promote" Joe into a one-man position where he doesn't have to interact with anyone else. Ideally, he also doesn't have anything at all to do which impacts on the rest of the company. When he gets bored and leaves, the problem is solved. If he doesn't show any sign of wanting to leave, don't award him any annual pay increments (on the grounds that he's not adding any value to the company, of course!) until he changes his mind.
      – alephzero
      4 hours ago















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    up vote
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    Because [Joe's] been with the company for so long he tends to ignore the rules, processes and even the company structure. And he gets away with it because when he needs an exemption, decision, or anything "nonstandard" he can go right to the owner and gets it approved on the spot. Or he simply ignores what he doesn't like.




    There is an inherent problem here: Joe isn't being a team player. A 150 person company can't scale if every engineer (regardless of seniority) is running off and doing his own thing. Some may argue because Joe delivers you should leave him be. But if Joe can't coordinate with other members of his team, he's actually hindering the work of 9 people. Unless Joe can be a 1 man show (and you can fire the other 9 people), he needs to learn to work with his team and within the confines of the processes and rules. If he doesn't like the processes and rules that are in place, he should use his power to change them instead of just ignoring them.



    I've worked with a "Joe" at one of my previous companies. He was the first engineer hired at a popular startup and had a direct line to the co-founders. But as the company scaled, he too was ignoring processes and having difficulty working within the new org structure. Enough people complained about him that the co-founders ended up put him in charge of a R&D division and allowed him to hand pick the engineers for his team. He was very ineffective leading the R&D group. After 1.5 years, they didn't produce any meaningful research and he eventually left the company. His team was disbanded and absorbed into the engineering group. The moral of the story is that people like "Joe" may seem like an asset to the company, but they belong in smaller companies with less structure. They prefer the wild west of early stage startups where anything goes. They hinder the growth of the company by ignoring rules which builds dissent among the other employees.



    I recommend having a talk with Joe about how his actions make it difficult to coordinate with him and hinder the work of his team.






    share|improve this answer















    Because [Joe's] been with the company for so long he tends to ignore the rules, processes and even the company structure. And he gets away with it because when he needs an exemption, decision, or anything "nonstandard" he can go right to the owner and gets it approved on the spot. Or he simply ignores what he doesn't like.




    There is an inherent problem here: Joe isn't being a team player. A 150 person company can't scale if every engineer (regardless of seniority) is running off and doing his own thing. Some may argue because Joe delivers you should leave him be. But if Joe can't coordinate with other members of his team, he's actually hindering the work of 9 people. Unless Joe can be a 1 man show (and you can fire the other 9 people), he needs to learn to work with his team and within the confines of the processes and rules. If he doesn't like the processes and rules that are in place, he should use his power to change them instead of just ignoring them.



    I've worked with a "Joe" at one of my previous companies. He was the first engineer hired at a popular startup and had a direct line to the co-founders. But as the company scaled, he too was ignoring processes and having difficulty working within the new org structure. Enough people complained about him that the co-founders ended up put him in charge of a R&D division and allowed him to hand pick the engineers for his team. He was very ineffective leading the R&D group. After 1.5 years, they didn't produce any meaningful research and he eventually left the company. His team was disbanded and absorbed into the engineering group. The moral of the story is that people like "Joe" may seem like an asset to the company, but they belong in smaller companies with less structure. They prefer the wild west of early stage startups where anything goes. They hinder the growth of the company by ignoring rules which builds dissent among the other employees.



    I recommend having a talk with Joe about how his actions make it difficult to coordinate with him and hinder the work of his team.







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      This might be the better answer in case the company has been making some progress moving away from the startup/small business culture
      – Victor S
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      That's a good point but what can I do about it? Talking to Joe won't lead anywhere, he's happy with the current status. Talking to my line manager probably won't help either, he's still a few levels below the owner. I can't go directly to the owner and complain about his loyal engineer of 10 years, I'm not in that position. Besides I can't really point out any single big, pressing issue that could be corrected if Joe was removed from the company. Your point is good but doesn't really answer how to deal with it.
      – Fer Dah
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      This is an excellent summary of the situation, but the advice is wrong. Joe is perfectly happy with the status quo, so why would he change? Not everyone cares about other people's feelings; with such people, letting them know they're making others' jobs harder won't result in them changing their behaviour.
      – AakashM
      18 hours ago






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      The anecdote gives the correct advice. You "promote" Joe into a one-man position where he doesn't have to interact with anyone else. Ideally, he also doesn't have anything at all to do which impacts on the rest of the company. When he gets bored and leaves, the problem is solved. If he doesn't show any sign of wanting to leave, don't award him any annual pay increments (on the grounds that he's not adding any value to the company, of course!) until he changes his mind.
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      This might be the better answer in case the company has been making some progress moving away from the startup/small business culture
      – Victor S
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      That's a good point but what can I do about it? Talking to Joe won't lead anywhere, he's happy with the current status. Talking to my line manager probably won't help either, he's still a few levels below the owner. I can't go directly to the owner and complain about his loyal engineer of 10 years, I'm not in that position. Besides I can't really point out any single big, pressing issue that could be corrected if Joe was removed from the company. Your point is good but doesn't really answer how to deal with it.
      – Fer Dah
      18 hours ago






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      This is an excellent summary of the situation, but the advice is wrong. Joe is perfectly happy with the status quo, so why would he change? Not everyone cares about other people's feelings; with such people, letting them know they're making others' jobs harder won't result in them changing their behaviour.
      – AakashM
      18 hours ago






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      The anecdote gives the correct advice. You "promote" Joe into a one-man position where he doesn't have to interact with anyone else. Ideally, he also doesn't have anything at all to do which impacts on the rest of the company. When he gets bored and leaves, the problem is solved. If he doesn't show any sign of wanting to leave, don't award him any annual pay increments (on the grounds that he's not adding any value to the company, of course!) until he changes his mind.
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    This might be the better answer in case the company has been making some progress moving away from the startup/small business culture
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    That's a good point but what can I do about it? Talking to Joe won't lead anywhere, he's happy with the current status. Talking to my line manager probably won't help either, he's still a few levels below the owner. I can't go directly to the owner and complain about his loyal engineer of 10 years, I'm not in that position. Besides I can't really point out any single big, pressing issue that could be corrected if Joe was removed from the company. Your point is good but doesn't really answer how to deal with it.
    – Fer Dah
    18 hours ago




    That's a good point but what can I do about it? Talking to Joe won't lead anywhere, he's happy with the current status. Talking to my line manager probably won't help either, he's still a few levels below the owner. I can't go directly to the owner and complain about his loyal engineer of 10 years, I'm not in that position. Besides I can't really point out any single big, pressing issue that could be corrected if Joe was removed from the company. Your point is good but doesn't really answer how to deal with it.
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    This is an excellent summary of the situation, but the advice is wrong. Joe is perfectly happy with the status quo, so why would he change? Not everyone cares about other people's feelings; with such people, letting them know they're making others' jobs harder won't result in them changing their behaviour.
    – AakashM
    18 hours ago




    This is an excellent summary of the situation, but the advice is wrong. Joe is perfectly happy with the status quo, so why would he change? Not everyone cares about other people's feelings; with such people, letting them know they're making others' jobs harder won't result in them changing their behaviour.
    – AakashM
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    The anecdote gives the correct advice. You "promote" Joe into a one-man position where he doesn't have to interact with anyone else. Ideally, he also doesn't have anything at all to do which impacts on the rest of the company. When he gets bored and leaves, the problem is solved. If he doesn't show any sign of wanting to leave, don't award him any annual pay increments (on the grounds that he's not adding any value to the company, of course!) until he changes his mind.
    – alephzero
    4 hours ago






    The anecdote gives the correct advice. You "promote" Joe into a one-man position where he doesn't have to interact with anyone else. Ideally, he also doesn't have anything at all to do which impacts on the rest of the company. When he gets bored and leaves, the problem is solved. If he doesn't show any sign of wanting to leave, don't award him any annual pay increments (on the grounds that he's not adding any value to the company, of course!) until he changes his mind.
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    Put your shoes into Joe's :




    • You've been working here for 10+ years

    • You've been good at what you are doing

    • Directly in touch with the owner, satisfying his requests, etc...

    • Now this new manager 'trendy', 'new wave' etc... is coming up and telling me what to do

    • I don't care about these new techs, new structure, etc... it was working fine before, why change?


    So that's basically how he feels, and you can't approach this as a pure manager, you have to understand him as a senior developer.



    What I suggest doing?



    I think the main point is to come up with incremental steps.
    First identify all the weak points that you want to 'fix' :




    • A- Doesn't come in Slack

    • B- Doesn't attend team meeting

    • C- Hit up the boss directly bypassing the whole process

    • etc...


    Then slowly (over weeks) come up to him with 2 choices (let's say A,B) and say something in those lines :




    Hey Joe, we really need you in the team, you are a core member (pat him a little). We need your expertise and be in sync more frequently, I've noticed you don't use Slack where the team communicates nor coming to the team meetings, could you please at least do one of them? That would improve the team work and we would all really appreciate that. (basically give him power/choice and make him thinks that HE chooses what he can do) I know you are not into those things (approach with compassion), we are just trying to streamline the process and get everyone on board, in sync.




    The key points here, are putting first the TEAM WORK and that you UNDERSTAND him, don't make it like it's coming from you or like a personal favor. Get him involved in the process by giving him the choice to join the process.



    Keep asking for A + B until he does one of them, then keep going with B + C (or A+C depending of what he does), etc... The more steps he will be doing, the more he will feel involved and the better it will go.



    In the case of him doing 0 efforts and being 100% stubborn, you don't have many choices, IMO, but escalating it to the boss and try to talk with the boss + Joe in a meeting to clear things out.






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    Put your shoes into Joe's :




    • You've been working here for 10+ years

    • You've been good at what you are doing

    • Directly in touch with the owner, satisfying his requests, etc...

    • Now this new manager 'trendy', 'new wave' etc... is coming up and telling me what to do

    • I don't care about these new techs, new structure, etc... it was working fine before, why change?


    So that's basically how he feels, and you can't approach this as a pure manager, you have to understand him as a senior developer.



    What I suggest doing?



    I think the main point is to come up with incremental steps.
    First identify all the weak points that you want to 'fix' :




    • A- Doesn't come in Slack

    • B- Doesn't attend team meeting

    • C- Hit up the boss directly bypassing the whole process

    • etc...


    Then slowly (over weeks) come up to him with 2 choices (let's say A,B) and say something in those lines :




    Hey Joe, we really need you in the team, you are a core member (pat him a little). We need your expertise and be in sync more frequently, I've noticed you don't use Slack where the team communicates nor coming to the team meetings, could you please at least do one of them? That would improve the team work and we would all really appreciate that. (basically give him power/choice and make him thinks that HE chooses what he can do) I know you are not into those things (approach with compassion), we are just trying to streamline the process and get everyone on board, in sync.




    The key points here, are putting first the TEAM WORK and that you UNDERSTAND him, don't make it like it's coming from you or like a personal favor. Get him involved in the process by giving him the choice to join the process.



    Keep asking for A + B until he does one of them, then keep going with B + C (or A+C depending of what he does), etc... The more steps he will be doing, the more he will feel involved and the better it will go.



    In the case of him doing 0 efforts and being 100% stubborn, you don't have many choices, IMO, but escalating it to the boss and try to talk with the boss + Joe in a meeting to clear things out.






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    Put your shoes into Joe's :




    • You've been working here for 10+ years

    • You've been good at what you are doing

    • Directly in touch with the owner, satisfying his requests, etc...

    • Now this new manager 'trendy', 'new wave' etc... is coming up and telling me what to do

    • I don't care about these new techs, new structure, etc... it was working fine before, why change?


    So that's basically how he feels, and you can't approach this as a pure manager, you have to understand him as a senior developer.



    What I suggest doing?



    I think the main point is to come up with incremental steps.
    First identify all the weak points that you want to 'fix' :




    • A- Doesn't come in Slack

    • B- Doesn't attend team meeting

    • C- Hit up the boss directly bypassing the whole process

    • etc...


    Then slowly (over weeks) come up to him with 2 choices (let's say A,B) and say something in those lines :




    Hey Joe, we really need you in the team, you are a core member (pat him a little). We need your expertise and be in sync more frequently, I've noticed you don't use Slack where the team communicates nor coming to the team meetings, could you please at least do one of them? That would improve the team work and we would all really appreciate that. (basically give him power/choice and make him thinks that HE chooses what he can do) I know you are not into those things (approach with compassion), we are just trying to streamline the process and get everyone on board, in sync.




    The key points here, are putting first the TEAM WORK and that you UNDERSTAND him, don't make it like it's coming from you or like a personal favor. Get him involved in the process by giving him the choice to join the process.



    Keep asking for A + B until he does one of them, then keep going with B + C (or A+C depending of what he does), etc... The more steps he will be doing, the more he will feel involved and the better it will go.



    In the case of him doing 0 efforts and being 100% stubborn, you don't have many choices, IMO, but escalating it to the boss and try to talk with the boss + Joe in a meeting to clear things out.






    share|improve this answer














    Put your shoes into Joe's :




    • You've been working here for 10+ years

    • You've been good at what you are doing

    • Directly in touch with the owner, satisfying his requests, etc...

    • Now this new manager 'trendy', 'new wave' etc... is coming up and telling me what to do

    • I don't care about these new techs, new structure, etc... it was working fine before, why change?


    So that's basically how he feels, and you can't approach this as a pure manager, you have to understand him as a senior developer.



    What I suggest doing?



    I think the main point is to come up with incremental steps.
    First identify all the weak points that you want to 'fix' :




    • A- Doesn't come in Slack

    • B- Doesn't attend team meeting

    • C- Hit up the boss directly bypassing the whole process

    • etc...


    Then slowly (over weeks) come up to him with 2 choices (let's say A,B) and say something in those lines :




    Hey Joe, we really need you in the team, you are a core member (pat him a little). We need your expertise and be in sync more frequently, I've noticed you don't use Slack where the team communicates nor coming to the team meetings, could you please at least do one of them? That would improve the team work and we would all really appreciate that. (basically give him power/choice and make him thinks that HE chooses what he can do) I know you are not into those things (approach with compassion), we are just trying to streamline the process and get everyone on board, in sync.




    The key points here, are putting first the TEAM WORK and that you UNDERSTAND him, don't make it like it's coming from you or like a personal favor. Get him involved in the process by giving him the choice to join the process.



    Keep asking for A + B until he does one of them, then keep going with B + C (or A+C depending of what he does), etc... The more steps he will be doing, the more he will feel involved and the better it will go.



    In the case of him doing 0 efforts and being 100% stubborn, you don't have many choices, IMO, but escalating it to the boss and try to talk with the boss + Joe in a meeting to clear things out.







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    This team member does not believe that your novelties and reorganizations (like using Slack instead of E-mail) are useful and sees them as unnecessary waste of time that should be spent on the actual work.



    He may be wrong; depending on your experience he may also be at least partially right. Other team members may share his opinion but be afraid to show it so openly. He does because he feels more protected.



    You need to convince him, and probably also more of the team, that your suggestions on work re-organization are useful and important. You need to explain why do you want changes, how do these changes make work more efficient and why are they needed now when it was ok without them in the past. Also think maybe some of your proposals are not sufficiently thought about.






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      This team member does not believe that your novelties and reorganizations (like using Slack instead of E-mail) are useful and sees them as unnecessary waste of time that should be spent on the actual work.



      He may be wrong; depending on your experience he may also be at least partially right. Other team members may share his opinion but be afraid to show it so openly. He does because he feels more protected.



      You need to convince him, and probably also more of the team, that your suggestions on work re-organization are useful and important. You need to explain why do you want changes, how do these changes make work more efficient and why are they needed now when it was ok without them in the past. Also think maybe some of your proposals are not sufficiently thought about.






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        up vote
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        This team member does not believe that your novelties and reorganizations (like using Slack instead of E-mail) are useful and sees them as unnecessary waste of time that should be spent on the actual work.



        He may be wrong; depending on your experience he may also be at least partially right. Other team members may share his opinion but be afraid to show it so openly. He does because he feels more protected.



        You need to convince him, and probably also more of the team, that your suggestions on work re-organization are useful and important. You need to explain why do you want changes, how do these changes make work more efficient and why are they needed now when it was ok without them in the past. Also think maybe some of your proposals are not sufficiently thought about.






        share|improve this answer












        This team member does not believe that your novelties and reorganizations (like using Slack instead of E-mail) are useful and sees them as unnecessary waste of time that should be spent on the actual work.



        He may be wrong; depending on your experience he may also be at least partially right. Other team members may share his opinion but be afraid to show it so openly. He does because he feels more protected.



        You need to convince him, and probably also more of the team, that your suggestions on work re-organization are useful and important. You need to explain why do you want changes, how do these changes make work more efficient and why are they needed now when it was ok without them in the past. Also think maybe some of your proposals are not sufficiently thought about.







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            Quite often that's against my and my team's decisions - for instance we settled on using Slack for communication, alerts, etc. He doesn't bother logging in most days and insists we call him or email him if needed. Or we have all-team work planning meetings every 2 weeks, but again he can't be bothered as he says he knows what he's got to do.




            Actually, it sounds like there are two problems here. One is that your examples for non-conformity sound weak. In your position, I also wouldn't bother going to the owners office, if you insist in using slack instead of the telephone. I mean, if Joe thinks he can replace slack with a telefone call, why to use slack in the first place? If there are real advantages over the telephone, you can highlight them a bit and maybe convince the owner.



            Two, if the problem is, that Joe rejects anything and he gets backup from the owner, you cannot do anything anyway. Main problem here is that this destroys your authority because the employees see that you cannot influence anything. The solution would be to go to the owner and speak about this problem, so that he either stops undermining your authority or you look for another job.






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            • if Joe thinks he can replace slack with a telefone call, why to use slack in the first place? You can't replace slack with a phone call - you could replace it with, in a team of 10, 9 phone calls for every message sent - which would be ridiculous.
              – Grimm The Opiner
              13 hours ago










            • As I said, if Team chat is important for Joe, then highlight this topic for the owner. At the end, he seems to decide how to work.
              – dgrat
              12 hours ago















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            Quite often that's against my and my team's decisions - for instance we settled on using Slack for communication, alerts, etc. He doesn't bother logging in most days and insists we call him or email him if needed. Or we have all-team work planning meetings every 2 weeks, but again he can't be bothered as he says he knows what he's got to do.




            Actually, it sounds like there are two problems here. One is that your examples for non-conformity sound weak. In your position, I also wouldn't bother going to the owners office, if you insist in using slack instead of the telephone. I mean, if Joe thinks he can replace slack with a telefone call, why to use slack in the first place? If there are real advantages over the telephone, you can highlight them a bit and maybe convince the owner.



            Two, if the problem is, that Joe rejects anything and he gets backup from the owner, you cannot do anything anyway. Main problem here is that this destroys your authority because the employees see that you cannot influence anything. The solution would be to go to the owner and speak about this problem, so that he either stops undermining your authority or you look for another job.






            share|improve this answer





















            • if Joe thinks he can replace slack with a telefone call, why to use slack in the first place? You can't replace slack with a phone call - you could replace it with, in a team of 10, 9 phone calls for every message sent - which would be ridiculous.
              – Grimm The Opiner
              13 hours ago










            • As I said, if Team chat is important for Joe, then highlight this topic for the owner. At the end, he seems to decide how to work.
              – dgrat
              12 hours ago













            up vote
            1
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            up vote
            1
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            Quite often that's against my and my team's decisions - for instance we settled on using Slack for communication, alerts, etc. He doesn't bother logging in most days and insists we call him or email him if needed. Or we have all-team work planning meetings every 2 weeks, but again he can't be bothered as he says he knows what he's got to do.




            Actually, it sounds like there are two problems here. One is that your examples for non-conformity sound weak. In your position, I also wouldn't bother going to the owners office, if you insist in using slack instead of the telephone. I mean, if Joe thinks he can replace slack with a telefone call, why to use slack in the first place? If there are real advantages over the telephone, you can highlight them a bit and maybe convince the owner.



            Two, if the problem is, that Joe rejects anything and he gets backup from the owner, you cannot do anything anyway. Main problem here is that this destroys your authority because the employees see that you cannot influence anything. The solution would be to go to the owner and speak about this problem, so that he either stops undermining your authority or you look for another job.






            share|improve this answer













            Quite often that's against my and my team's decisions - for instance we settled on using Slack for communication, alerts, etc. He doesn't bother logging in most days and insists we call him or email him if needed. Or we have all-team work planning meetings every 2 weeks, but again he can't be bothered as he says he knows what he's got to do.




            Actually, it sounds like there are two problems here. One is that your examples for non-conformity sound weak. In your position, I also wouldn't bother going to the owners office, if you insist in using slack instead of the telephone. I mean, if Joe thinks he can replace slack with a telefone call, why to use slack in the first place? If there are real advantages over the telephone, you can highlight them a bit and maybe convince the owner.



            Two, if the problem is, that Joe rejects anything and he gets backup from the owner, you cannot do anything anyway. Main problem here is that this destroys your authority because the employees see that you cannot influence anything. The solution would be to go to the owner and speak about this problem, so that he either stops undermining your authority or you look for another job.







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            • if Joe thinks he can replace slack with a telefone call, why to use slack in the first place? You can't replace slack with a phone call - you could replace it with, in a team of 10, 9 phone calls for every message sent - which would be ridiculous.
              – Grimm The Opiner
              13 hours ago










            • As I said, if Team chat is important for Joe, then highlight this topic for the owner. At the end, he seems to decide how to work.
              – dgrat
              12 hours ago


















            • if Joe thinks he can replace slack with a telefone call, why to use slack in the first place? You can't replace slack with a phone call - you could replace it with, in a team of 10, 9 phone calls for every message sent - which would be ridiculous.
              – Grimm The Opiner
              13 hours ago










            • As I said, if Team chat is important for Joe, then highlight this topic for the owner. At the end, he seems to decide how to work.
              – dgrat
              12 hours ago
















            if Joe thinks he can replace slack with a telefone call, why to use slack in the first place? You can't replace slack with a phone call - you could replace it with, in a team of 10, 9 phone calls for every message sent - which would be ridiculous.
            – Grimm The Opiner
            13 hours ago




            if Joe thinks he can replace slack with a telefone call, why to use slack in the first place? You can't replace slack with a phone call - you could replace it with, in a team of 10, 9 phone calls for every message sent - which would be ridiculous.
            – Grimm The Opiner
            13 hours ago












            As I said, if Team chat is important for Joe, then highlight this topic for the owner. At the end, he seems to decide how to work.
            – dgrat
            12 hours ago




            As I said, if Team chat is important for Joe, then highlight this topic for the owner. At the end, he seems to decide how to work.
            – dgrat
            12 hours ago










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            One of my team members (call him Joe) has been with the company pretty much since its inception 10+ years ago, longer than anyone else apart from the owner.




            If he is still with the company he has demonstrated he is capable of delivering time and time again.




            when he needs an exemption, decision, or anything "nonstandard" he can go right to the owner and gets it approved on the spot.




            The owner trusts his decisions and wants "Joe" to deliver as he sees fit.




            Even though I don't have any personal issues with him or his work performance it's causing some tensions in the team.




            It should not be too difficult to let the team understand his position as the senior member of the company.



            At the end of the day everyone is getting paid for the value they are delivering to the stakeholders. As the person managing this person, your job is to make sure he delivers value and seems like he is already doing that. If you try to work against him you will be




            1. Blocking him from delivering value and so failing at your job

            2. It will not work since owner is the owner and calls the shots


            Work with him. Unless he is intentionally disrupting the team give the guy the space to do his job. Do not cause undue stress just because he does not use some messaging app.



            If having your "subordinate" work autonomously from you is bothering you too much I would look into another job. The situation is the owner's call and from what you re saying like he is happy enough with it. There is not much you can do unless, again, he is being overtly disruptive.






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              There is a problem with this approach, though. Once a startup grows to the size this one has, it ceases to be the 'Wild West' where developers can work autonomously. I once worked for a software company just like this, and the result was unmaintainable, bloated code. If you don't follow strict guidelines on how to add new code, you can't work in a team of this size and deliver something that later additions to the team can maintain.
              – E.T.
              19 hours ago






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              This answer might work if it was based around removing Joe from the team and letting him work independently, but right now Joe is part of a team, and his behavior is hurting the rest of the team, and that issue should be resolved.
              – Erik
              19 hours ago










            • @Erik I based the answer on the owner seeing the team getting hurt as an acceptable tradeoff to the value he is getting from the guy while he is still somewhat working with the team. I think jcmack's answer is better for most cases but this is still useful
              – Victor S
              19 hours ago






            • 1




              +1 for "Work with him". Forcing him to follow a structure could be counter-productive. After all "Individuals and interactions over processes and tools" is the first point in agilemanifesto.org
              – Akavall
              7 hours ago

















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            One of my team members (call him Joe) has been with the company pretty much since its inception 10+ years ago, longer than anyone else apart from the owner.




            If he is still with the company he has demonstrated he is capable of delivering time and time again.




            when he needs an exemption, decision, or anything "nonstandard" he can go right to the owner and gets it approved on the spot.




            The owner trusts his decisions and wants "Joe" to deliver as he sees fit.




            Even though I don't have any personal issues with him or his work performance it's causing some tensions in the team.




            It should not be too difficult to let the team understand his position as the senior member of the company.



            At the end of the day everyone is getting paid for the value they are delivering to the stakeholders. As the person managing this person, your job is to make sure he delivers value and seems like he is already doing that. If you try to work against him you will be




            1. Blocking him from delivering value and so failing at your job

            2. It will not work since owner is the owner and calls the shots


            Work with him. Unless he is intentionally disrupting the team give the guy the space to do his job. Do not cause undue stress just because he does not use some messaging app.



            If having your "subordinate" work autonomously from you is bothering you too much I would look into another job. The situation is the owner's call and from what you re saying like he is happy enough with it. There is not much you can do unless, again, he is being overtly disruptive.






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            • 3




              There is a problem with this approach, though. Once a startup grows to the size this one has, it ceases to be the 'Wild West' where developers can work autonomously. I once worked for a software company just like this, and the result was unmaintainable, bloated code. If you don't follow strict guidelines on how to add new code, you can't work in a team of this size and deliver something that later additions to the team can maintain.
              – E.T.
              19 hours ago






            • 3




              This answer might work if it was based around removing Joe from the team and letting him work independently, but right now Joe is part of a team, and his behavior is hurting the rest of the team, and that issue should be resolved.
              – Erik
              19 hours ago










            • @Erik I based the answer on the owner seeing the team getting hurt as an acceptable tradeoff to the value he is getting from the guy while he is still somewhat working with the team. I think jcmack's answer is better for most cases but this is still useful
              – Victor S
              19 hours ago






            • 1




              +1 for "Work with him". Forcing him to follow a structure could be counter-productive. After all "Individuals and interactions over processes and tools" is the first point in agilemanifesto.org
              – Akavall
              7 hours ago















            up vote
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            up vote
            0
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            One of my team members (call him Joe) has been with the company pretty much since its inception 10+ years ago, longer than anyone else apart from the owner.




            If he is still with the company he has demonstrated he is capable of delivering time and time again.




            when he needs an exemption, decision, or anything "nonstandard" he can go right to the owner and gets it approved on the spot.




            The owner trusts his decisions and wants "Joe" to deliver as he sees fit.




            Even though I don't have any personal issues with him or his work performance it's causing some tensions in the team.




            It should not be too difficult to let the team understand his position as the senior member of the company.



            At the end of the day everyone is getting paid for the value they are delivering to the stakeholders. As the person managing this person, your job is to make sure he delivers value and seems like he is already doing that. If you try to work against him you will be




            1. Blocking him from delivering value and so failing at your job

            2. It will not work since owner is the owner and calls the shots


            Work with him. Unless he is intentionally disrupting the team give the guy the space to do his job. Do not cause undue stress just because he does not use some messaging app.



            If having your "subordinate" work autonomously from you is bothering you too much I would look into another job. The situation is the owner's call and from what you re saying like he is happy enough with it. There is not much you can do unless, again, he is being overtly disruptive.






            share|improve this answer













            One of my team members (call him Joe) has been with the company pretty much since its inception 10+ years ago, longer than anyone else apart from the owner.




            If he is still with the company he has demonstrated he is capable of delivering time and time again.




            when he needs an exemption, decision, or anything "nonstandard" he can go right to the owner and gets it approved on the spot.




            The owner trusts his decisions and wants "Joe" to deliver as he sees fit.




            Even though I don't have any personal issues with him or his work performance it's causing some tensions in the team.




            It should not be too difficult to let the team understand his position as the senior member of the company.



            At the end of the day everyone is getting paid for the value they are delivering to the stakeholders. As the person managing this person, your job is to make sure he delivers value and seems like he is already doing that. If you try to work against him you will be




            1. Blocking him from delivering value and so failing at your job

            2. It will not work since owner is the owner and calls the shots


            Work with him. Unless he is intentionally disrupting the team give the guy the space to do his job. Do not cause undue stress just because he does not use some messaging app.



            If having your "subordinate" work autonomously from you is bothering you too much I would look into another job. The situation is the owner's call and from what you re saying like he is happy enough with it. There is not much you can do unless, again, he is being overtly disruptive.







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            • 3




              There is a problem with this approach, though. Once a startup grows to the size this one has, it ceases to be the 'Wild West' where developers can work autonomously. I once worked for a software company just like this, and the result was unmaintainable, bloated code. If you don't follow strict guidelines on how to add new code, you can't work in a team of this size and deliver something that later additions to the team can maintain.
              – E.T.
              19 hours ago






            • 3




              This answer might work if it was based around removing Joe from the team and letting him work independently, but right now Joe is part of a team, and his behavior is hurting the rest of the team, and that issue should be resolved.
              – Erik
              19 hours ago










            • @Erik I based the answer on the owner seeing the team getting hurt as an acceptable tradeoff to the value he is getting from the guy while he is still somewhat working with the team. I think jcmack's answer is better for most cases but this is still useful
              – Victor S
              19 hours ago






            • 1




              +1 for "Work with him". Forcing him to follow a structure could be counter-productive. After all "Individuals and interactions over processes and tools" is the first point in agilemanifesto.org
              – Akavall
              7 hours ago
















            • 3




              There is a problem with this approach, though. Once a startup grows to the size this one has, it ceases to be the 'Wild West' where developers can work autonomously. I once worked for a software company just like this, and the result was unmaintainable, bloated code. If you don't follow strict guidelines on how to add new code, you can't work in a team of this size and deliver something that later additions to the team can maintain.
              – E.T.
              19 hours ago






            • 3




              This answer might work if it was based around removing Joe from the team and letting him work independently, but right now Joe is part of a team, and his behavior is hurting the rest of the team, and that issue should be resolved.
              – Erik
              19 hours ago










            • @Erik I based the answer on the owner seeing the team getting hurt as an acceptable tradeoff to the value he is getting from the guy while he is still somewhat working with the team. I think jcmack's answer is better for most cases but this is still useful
              – Victor S
              19 hours ago






            • 1




              +1 for "Work with him". Forcing him to follow a structure could be counter-productive. After all "Individuals and interactions over processes and tools" is the first point in agilemanifesto.org
              – Akavall
              7 hours ago










            3




            3




            There is a problem with this approach, though. Once a startup grows to the size this one has, it ceases to be the 'Wild West' where developers can work autonomously. I once worked for a software company just like this, and the result was unmaintainable, bloated code. If you don't follow strict guidelines on how to add new code, you can't work in a team of this size and deliver something that later additions to the team can maintain.
            – E.T.
            19 hours ago




            There is a problem with this approach, though. Once a startup grows to the size this one has, it ceases to be the 'Wild West' where developers can work autonomously. I once worked for a software company just like this, and the result was unmaintainable, bloated code. If you don't follow strict guidelines on how to add new code, you can't work in a team of this size and deliver something that later additions to the team can maintain.
            – E.T.
            19 hours ago




            3




            3




            This answer might work if it was based around removing Joe from the team and letting him work independently, but right now Joe is part of a team, and his behavior is hurting the rest of the team, and that issue should be resolved.
            – Erik
            19 hours ago




            This answer might work if it was based around removing Joe from the team and letting him work independently, but right now Joe is part of a team, and his behavior is hurting the rest of the team, and that issue should be resolved.
            – Erik
            19 hours ago












            @Erik I based the answer on the owner seeing the team getting hurt as an acceptable tradeoff to the value he is getting from the guy while he is still somewhat working with the team. I think jcmack's answer is better for most cases but this is still useful
            – Victor S
            19 hours ago




            @Erik I based the answer on the owner seeing the team getting hurt as an acceptable tradeoff to the value he is getting from the guy while he is still somewhat working with the team. I think jcmack's answer is better for most cases but this is still useful
            – Victor S
            19 hours ago




            1




            1




            +1 for "Work with him". Forcing him to follow a structure could be counter-productive. After all "Individuals and interactions over processes and tools" is the first point in agilemanifesto.org
            – Akavall
            7 hours ago






            +1 for "Work with him". Forcing him to follow a structure could be counter-productive. After all "Individuals and interactions over processes and tools" is the first point in agilemanifesto.org
            – Akavall
            7 hours ago












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            That puts me in an an awkward position - he's in theory my "subordinate" but in reality he ignores me,




            That's only on paper, but in reality you have no power over Joe. If you are no power over him, you aren't his boss no matter what your contract says. You have to understand as long as Joe has support from the owner who pays your own salary, there is nothing you should do.



            You will not disagree Joe, anything he has support from the owner is the laws. Breaking his laws/beliefs is a crime. Apparently, you've been breaking the laws often by going against Joe's wills.



            Manage your team as if Joe was you direct manager. Make him happy so the owner would praise you. The only thing that defines right/wrong in an organization is power, unfortunately you lost the power struggle battle.




            ... for instance we settled on using Slack for communication, alerts, etc. He doesn't bother logging in most days and insists we call him or email him if needed...




            As long as Joe has support from the owner, it's your own fault for settling on Slack. Joe, who is your de-facto manger had not approved your idea. Please do what exactly Joe demanded you to do.




            Or we have all-team work planning meetings every 2 weeks, but again he can't be bothered as he says he knows what he's got to do.




            Again, had you asked for permission from Joe for a regular fortnight meeting?



            Please note Joe must have contributed significantly for the company to make it a 150+ company. The owner has the trust on him. Please thanks Joe for his works leading to your current job.






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            • 1




              @Mawg Ok. "obey" was too strong, I meant "disagree". I edited.
              – SmallChess
              19 hours ago






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              And the sad, harsh, reality, is that Joe makes other employees run - to other companies., C'est la view :-/
              – Mawg
              19 hours ago






            • 2




              Nothing about Joe suggests he's leading or managing anything; he's being a loose cannon. There's nothing neccesarily wrong with that, but it's pointless trying to "follow" him or to treat him like your manager. That'll just get you fired for not being able to manage the rest of the team.
              – Erik
              19 hours ago






            • 1




              You didn't. Nobody did; that's the point. You said to treat him like he is one. I just explained why that would be pointless.
              – Erik
              19 hours ago






            • 1




              Treating him like a manager because he has proven himself incapable of being managed is... well, an interesting perpsective.
              – Lightness Races in Orbit
              16 hours ago















            up vote
            -6
            down vote














            That puts me in an an awkward position - he's in theory my "subordinate" but in reality he ignores me,




            That's only on paper, but in reality you have no power over Joe. If you are no power over him, you aren't his boss no matter what your contract says. You have to understand as long as Joe has support from the owner who pays your own salary, there is nothing you should do.



            You will not disagree Joe, anything he has support from the owner is the laws. Breaking his laws/beliefs is a crime. Apparently, you've been breaking the laws often by going against Joe's wills.



            Manage your team as if Joe was you direct manager. Make him happy so the owner would praise you. The only thing that defines right/wrong in an organization is power, unfortunately you lost the power struggle battle.




            ... for instance we settled on using Slack for communication, alerts, etc. He doesn't bother logging in most days and insists we call him or email him if needed...




            As long as Joe has support from the owner, it's your own fault for settling on Slack. Joe, who is your de-facto manger had not approved your idea. Please do what exactly Joe demanded you to do.




            Or we have all-team work planning meetings every 2 weeks, but again he can't be bothered as he says he knows what he's got to do.




            Again, had you asked for permission from Joe for a regular fortnight meeting?



            Please note Joe must have contributed significantly for the company to make it a 150+ company. The owner has the trust on him. Please thanks Joe for his works leading to your current job.






            share|improve this answer



















            • 1




              @Mawg Ok. "obey" was too strong, I meant "disagree". I edited.
              – SmallChess
              19 hours ago






            • 2




              And the sad, harsh, reality, is that Joe makes other employees run - to other companies., C'est la view :-/
              – Mawg
              19 hours ago






            • 2




              Nothing about Joe suggests he's leading or managing anything; he's being a loose cannon. There's nothing neccesarily wrong with that, but it's pointless trying to "follow" him or to treat him like your manager. That'll just get you fired for not being able to manage the rest of the team.
              – Erik
              19 hours ago






            • 1




              You didn't. Nobody did; that's the point. You said to treat him like he is one. I just explained why that would be pointless.
              – Erik
              19 hours ago






            • 1




              Treating him like a manager because he has proven himself incapable of being managed is... well, an interesting perpsective.
              – Lightness Races in Orbit
              16 hours ago













            up vote
            -6
            down vote










            up vote
            -6
            down vote










            That puts me in an an awkward position - he's in theory my "subordinate" but in reality he ignores me,




            That's only on paper, but in reality you have no power over Joe. If you are no power over him, you aren't his boss no matter what your contract says. You have to understand as long as Joe has support from the owner who pays your own salary, there is nothing you should do.



            You will not disagree Joe, anything he has support from the owner is the laws. Breaking his laws/beliefs is a crime. Apparently, you've been breaking the laws often by going against Joe's wills.



            Manage your team as if Joe was you direct manager. Make him happy so the owner would praise you. The only thing that defines right/wrong in an organization is power, unfortunately you lost the power struggle battle.




            ... for instance we settled on using Slack for communication, alerts, etc. He doesn't bother logging in most days and insists we call him or email him if needed...




            As long as Joe has support from the owner, it's your own fault for settling on Slack. Joe, who is your de-facto manger had not approved your idea. Please do what exactly Joe demanded you to do.




            Or we have all-team work planning meetings every 2 weeks, but again he can't be bothered as he says he knows what he's got to do.




            Again, had you asked for permission from Joe for a regular fortnight meeting?



            Please note Joe must have contributed significantly for the company to make it a 150+ company. The owner has the trust on him. Please thanks Joe for his works leading to your current job.






            share|improve this answer















            That puts me in an an awkward position - he's in theory my "subordinate" but in reality he ignores me,




            That's only on paper, but in reality you have no power over Joe. If you are no power over him, you aren't his boss no matter what your contract says. You have to understand as long as Joe has support from the owner who pays your own salary, there is nothing you should do.



            You will not disagree Joe, anything he has support from the owner is the laws. Breaking his laws/beliefs is a crime. Apparently, you've been breaking the laws often by going against Joe's wills.



            Manage your team as if Joe was you direct manager. Make him happy so the owner would praise you. The only thing that defines right/wrong in an organization is power, unfortunately you lost the power struggle battle.




            ... for instance we settled on using Slack for communication, alerts, etc. He doesn't bother logging in most days and insists we call him or email him if needed...




            As long as Joe has support from the owner, it's your own fault for settling on Slack. Joe, who is your de-facto manger had not approved your idea. Please do what exactly Joe demanded you to do.




            Or we have all-team work planning meetings every 2 weeks, but again he can't be bothered as he says he knows what he's got to do.




            Again, had you asked for permission from Joe for a regular fortnight meeting?



            Please note Joe must have contributed significantly for the company to make it a 150+ company. The owner has the trust on him. Please thanks Joe for his works leading to your current job.







            share|improve this answer














            share|improve this answer



            share|improve this answer








            edited 19 hours ago

























            answered 22 hours ago









            SmallChess

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            • 1




              @Mawg Ok. "obey" was too strong, I meant "disagree". I edited.
              – SmallChess
              19 hours ago






            • 2




              And the sad, harsh, reality, is that Joe makes other employees run - to other companies., C'est la view :-/
              – Mawg
              19 hours ago






            • 2




              Nothing about Joe suggests he's leading or managing anything; he's being a loose cannon. There's nothing neccesarily wrong with that, but it's pointless trying to "follow" him or to treat him like your manager. That'll just get you fired for not being able to manage the rest of the team.
              – Erik
              19 hours ago






            • 1




              You didn't. Nobody did; that's the point. You said to treat him like he is one. I just explained why that would be pointless.
              – Erik
              19 hours ago






            • 1




              Treating him like a manager because he has proven himself incapable of being managed is... well, an interesting perpsective.
              – Lightness Races in Orbit
              16 hours ago














            • 1




              @Mawg Ok. "obey" was too strong, I meant "disagree". I edited.
              – SmallChess
              19 hours ago






            • 2




              And the sad, harsh, reality, is that Joe makes other employees run - to other companies., C'est la view :-/
              – Mawg
              19 hours ago






            • 2




              Nothing about Joe suggests he's leading or managing anything; he's being a loose cannon. There's nothing neccesarily wrong with that, but it's pointless trying to "follow" him or to treat him like your manager. That'll just get you fired for not being able to manage the rest of the team.
              – Erik
              19 hours ago






            • 1




              You didn't. Nobody did; that's the point. You said to treat him like he is one. I just explained why that would be pointless.
              – Erik
              19 hours ago






            • 1




              Treating him like a manager because he has proven himself incapable of being managed is... well, an interesting perpsective.
              – Lightness Races in Orbit
              16 hours ago








            1




            1




            @Mawg Ok. "obey" was too strong, I meant "disagree". I edited.
            – SmallChess
            19 hours ago




            @Mawg Ok. "obey" was too strong, I meant "disagree". I edited.
            – SmallChess
            19 hours ago




            2




            2




            And the sad, harsh, reality, is that Joe makes other employees run - to other companies., C'est la view :-/
            – Mawg
            19 hours ago




            And the sad, harsh, reality, is that Joe makes other employees run - to other companies., C'est la view :-/
            – Mawg
            19 hours ago




            2




            2




            Nothing about Joe suggests he's leading or managing anything; he's being a loose cannon. There's nothing neccesarily wrong with that, but it's pointless trying to "follow" him or to treat him like your manager. That'll just get you fired for not being able to manage the rest of the team.
            – Erik
            19 hours ago




            Nothing about Joe suggests he's leading or managing anything; he's being a loose cannon. There's nothing neccesarily wrong with that, but it's pointless trying to "follow" him or to treat him like your manager. That'll just get you fired for not being able to manage the rest of the team.
            – Erik
            19 hours ago




            1




            1




            You didn't. Nobody did; that's the point. You said to treat him like he is one. I just explained why that would be pointless.
            – Erik
            19 hours ago




            You didn't. Nobody did; that's the point. You said to treat him like he is one. I just explained why that would be pointless.
            – Erik
            19 hours ago




            1




            1




            Treating him like a manager because he has proven himself incapable of being managed is... well, an interesting perpsective.
            – Lightness Races in Orbit
            16 hours ago




            Treating him like a manager because he has proven himself incapable of being managed is... well, an interesting perpsective.
            – Lightness Races in Orbit
            16 hours ago










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